Here's why some people might shut down and stop communicating with their partner—and 2 ways to get the relationship back on track, according to fdbarthlcsw
. For some people, talking, even casually, can stir up a fear that we will get too close and lose our sense of who we are as separate people.When we’re not juggling intimacy and independence, for instance, with work buddies, our communications are much less confusing. But it can be much harder to find a good balance between what developmental theorists call “So, like an acrobat on a tightwire, we lean first to one side, then to the other, to try to keep our balance.
He played with their children, talked to them, and told them stories, but he stopped talking if she asked a question or tried to participate. After several sessions of therapy, Hank said, “I think I have trouble talking to you because we are so close. I want you to know things without me having to tell them to you. And when you don’t, I get irritated. But that’s not your fault. That’s on me.”
Aaron said, “Hunh. I never thought about that. You know I’ve had bad experiences in relationships before. I really care about you, and I want us to work, and I’m afraid of going too fast. And maybe I’m afraid of getting hurt. So you’re not pushing me away, but I’ve been afraid to tell you that I need to go slowly because I’ve been worried you wouldn’t wait.”Couples often think they need to talk about deep, serious things to be close. But it’s the small stuff that is the glue of a relationship.
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