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, a Washington–based, women-owned sex shop. “Sometimes the instinct is to go for something really small and discreet for your first time, but I always encourage people to think about getting something that's a little bit bigger if they're using it with a partner, because it has a higher chance of success and is easier to find the right spot.”
If you’re looking to expand your collection from that tiny bullet vibe you picked up at Spencer’s years ago, if you’re a, or you and your partner are looking for a few to try together, you may be unsure how to navigate the many, many options. We tapped a group of sex experts to get their read on the best vibrators for people with vulvas. But Mason notes that most—if not all—of these will feel good on a penis or around other erogenous zones, too.
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