Am I wrong to think they are unreasonable, or should I have dragged myself to the weddings anyway?
They have never asked how I am doing health-wise, despite the fact I had heart surgery for a double aortic aneurysm and aortic valve replacement two years ago.
My daughter recently told me she has tried very hard to have a relationship with me. I blurted out, “When?” Abby, what’s your take? -- KICKED WHEN DOWN IN TEXAS DEAR KICKED: My take is that your daughter does not/did not understand how debilitating some cancer treatments can be and resents your not attending her wedding. If I had to guess, her resentment has had a lot to do with your granddaughter’s attitude toward you.
I suspect there were problems between you and your daughter that preceded her marriage and contributed to the rift. Because you can’t change the past, my advice is to concentrate on building emotionally satisfying relationships with others, because neither of these individuals seems inclined to cut you any slack.
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