He’s always in our house — sometimes just standing there when I open a door.
Last year, he befriended a man who lives across the street. This neighbor had been a civil-service employee but took early retirement and is undergoing treatment for PTSD.
They spend two to six hours in Pete’s man cave, drinking, smoking and playing bar games. When I join in, the neighbor interrupts me and railroads the conversation. He insults me and is hypocritical about everything from my appearance to the meals I prepare.An example: When Pete didn’t quickly answer his texts or calls, the neighbor would come to our house, peer through our windows, yell and bang on the door. It took Pete six months to tell him to stop doing that.
I’m angry at Pete for not doing anything to resolve this. I’m no longer happy in my own home. I think this man feels threatened by me, like he wants Pete all to himself, and I don’t know what to do. Please help.Your neighbor doesn’t feel threatened by you. You feel threatened by him, and with good reason.
Normal people do not act the way he does. His fixation on Pete is unhealthy. If your submissive partner cannot recognize that on his own,on some sessions with a licensed psychotherapist who can explain to him exactly what the two of you are dealing with.Is it rude to move the front passenger seat in a car if you are only going to be in it for a short time?
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