I know he has reason to feel guilty, because he deletes her texts.
: The widow keeps texting your husband because he is encouraging it. I agree with you that the conversations have gone beyond “condolences,” or he wouldn’t delete the messages.Gather all of the financial information you can and have a private chat with a lawyer about what your rights are as a wife in the state in which you live.
Tell him you want it stopped immediately, and the two of you must get marriage counseling either with your religious adviser or a licensed marriage and family therapist. I visited him recently for a cookout, and it wasn’t good. He got into an argument with his wife, shattered a glass, tried to fight me out of the blue, and talked about extremist topics — all in front of his young, impressionable kids.The problem is, we work together. Although we have different shifts, I see him and his team almost daily at meetings, and our teams are already polarized.