Everybody is invited except me, and she refuses to back down.
My adult children will be traveling a long distance to attend this wedding — just as Clare attended my daughter’s wedding five years ago – along with many members of my ex-husband’s family.Although my feelings are very hurt by this slight, I’ve made peace with the fact that a bride can invite whomever she wants.
This niece and her parents will be invited to my son’s out-of-town wedding next year, and she attended an engagement party this spring.How do I move forward?: I assume that you’ve arrived at one important destination, in that you no longer would even consider attending a wedding where the bride so steadfastly does not want you there.
You could send her a card, expressing your concern about your relationship with her, which has only surfaced now. You could state that you had no idea she was holding onto a resentment leftover from her teen years, and say that you wish you had been aware of this so you could have addressed it with her.
This exclusion has already been addressed by both your ex and the bride’s mother. At future family gatherings, there is no point in bringing it up again with them.I have a bunch of close family members who have extreme political views. I’m more moderate.The cliche line is, “Let’s agree to disagree.” How about making it more positive and saying, “We agree that we have different beliefs.”: I like, “We agree that we have different beliefs.
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