Advice columnist Amy Dickinson answers her readers’ questions in this February 8, 2023 edition of Ask Amy.
He says that we owe him an apology, but we think he’s being his usual selfish, self-serving and perpetual-victim self.I’m with you and your brother. If your father had really wanted to support you through this trying time, he would have contacted you both in advance of showing up to express his fatherly concern and to ask how he could best support you.
Now that you have asserted a strong boundary with your father, I suggest that you should use neutral language and communicate to him that in order for you to have a better relationship moving forward, you will need him to understand how deeply his actions over the last 10 years have affected you. My son takes excellent care of his children, so I don’t have to spend as much money or time with them as I do with the other ones.Should I change now, before they recognize this imbalance, too?I’m genuinely sorry for your loss. Your choice to step up for your grandchildren is natural — and commendable.
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